Category: love

It all begins with you. If you do not care for yourself, you will not be strong enough to take care of anything in life.

Until you heal the wounds of your past, you are going to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, with alcohol, with drugs, with work, with cigarettes, with sex; But eventually, it will all ooze through and stain your life. You must find the strength to open the wounds, Stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past, the memories and make peace with them.

But things work out, you know. Even if it doesn’t feel OK for a long time, or even if it feels like things will never be OK again, (things) work out in the end.

Know that you can start late, look different, be uncertain and still succeed.

Never carry things on from the past. The past is gone. Every moment – be rid of it, solved or unsolved. Drop it, and don’t carry parts – because those parts won’t allow you to solve new problems that live in this moment.

Always find time for the things that make you feel happy to be alive.

A healthy relationship is where two independent people just make a deal that they will help the other person be the best version of themselves.

Believe nothing, no matter where you read or heard it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.

Our life span is only a hundred years at most. How are we living those years? Are we making the most of our days? What are we here to realize or to accomplish?

I like cancelled plans. And empty bookstores. I like rainy days and thunderstorms. And quiet coffee shops. I like messy beds and over-worn pajamas. Most of all, I like the small joys that a simple life brings.